Why should you get to know Jan_B?

It doesnt really matter what I write here you will only contact me and want to get to know me if you like my photos. Lets be honest here the chemistry thing starts with the photos.

Anyway here is a "little" resume on why you MAY or may not want to get to know me.

I am looking for a boyfriend. Not a friend, I have lots of those both male and female. If I wanted more friends I would just ask to be friends with my friends friends.
I can talk about almost anything that interests me. If you have an interest that I can share then I love to listen and learn.
I have a wicked sense of humour and tend to laugh a lot. I can also laugh at myself and don't mind you laughing at me as well, providing you know when to draw the line.
I am well travelled and have had loads of fun all over the world.
I don't suffer from PMS....I make sure others do :)
I prefer the bush to the sea.
I make a mean braai.
I can ride a motorbike.
I can say sorry when I am wrong. YIP its true! Sometimes I am wrong. OK not very often.
I don't cry often so I won't do the emotional blackmail thing on you just to get my way.
I speak my mind. Sometimes to my detriment. Sometimes to others.
My photos are recent and you will recognise me if we meet.
I REALLY am slim! ;)
I am not emotionally disturbed.
I don't read motivational or self help books.
I will never stalk you.
I don't wear a lot of make up.

Just because I don't have kids doesn't mean I don't like them. I may even like your kids more than I like you! :)

Thats all for now.

She describes her ideal match thus:

I have met some amazing and interesting people on this site. I have also learnt a lot from the people I have met.
I've been taught how to fill in my own tax form (and get a refund) :)
I've learnt the only way to drink milo is with amarula.
It has been proven to me that money, a flashy car and a ton of degrees mean nothing if the majority of people think you are a chop!

You have to live close. It has been proved to me more than once that long distance relationships don't work. I also know myself that the further you live or work then it is almost a given that you will be the one I fall for. I am considering going for therapy about this. I think it stems from my childhood! I have to blame something and that seems like a great scape goat! :)

I need a man who knows where he is going in life. A leader with a backbone who answers to no-one. Not his parents, his friends, his ex wife, ex fiance, ex girlfriend or his kids.
Do you know a little bit about how women function?
Can you cook?
Do you have a sense of humour? (Really important)
Are you lovable and affectionate?
Do you have minor issues? I can only give advice to a point!

There are a couple of things I don't like in a man.
Someone who calls me difficult or full of crap because I am not doing or saying what he wants me to.
Antagonistic. Don't provoke me to get a reaction as you may not like the reaction you get.
People who use this site to boost their ego's or spite their exes.
Snorers.
Snobs or arrogant people.
People with no manners.

OK thats the first chapter finished!